This is such a lie.you CHOSE to ignore the fact that he had made a commitment to another woman. You CHOSE to pursue him and encourage him and he you. So when you DESTROYED his family, it was by CHOICE.
Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you. (Isaiah reminds me of the footprint quote