Many people mix opinion with fact. Unless you search for the facts, you're just repeating another person's opinion - and most likely stretching the truth (like a secret and passing it on). And, perception is not always reality. Get the facts yourself!
Wow, this is dead on! There is nothing as special as feeling completely accepted by the person you love. Seeking to accept and understand others despite our natural differences as individuals is the most fulfilling and love filled way to live.