Focus on what you want. You are living your life and are responsible to the woman you see in the mirror. You don't tell others how to live their lives. Letting them dictate your actions will never make you happy!
"Life is Too Short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you" As Dr.Wayne Dyer always says" one of the first things you have to do to start on the path of the life you want, is to REMOVE yourself from the presence of negative people.