The idea that women cannot be abusive and controlling is again, part of patriarchy. Male victims should not be ignored. Feminists care about this. You use "men are abused and raped too" as an excuse BUT, OH, LOOK HOW YOU HANDLED THAT.
According to Greek mythology humans were originally created with 4 arms 4 legs & a head with 2 faces, but Zeus thought they had too much power so he split them into 2 people and made their goal in life to find their other half- soul mates