Takers will use you for whatever you will give and when a better opportunity or piece of advice comes along, they will bail on you without any gratitude and go in their new direction to take from someone else. The thing to keep in mind is that takers.
You're a different person now, it's just sad because I miss you a lot. Strangers can become best friends just as easy as best friends can become strangers. Friends and family members evolve over time, we all do, so this is a sad but true fact of life.
Avoid dresses that accumulates on your waistline. It does not mean that you have to wear dresses that draws attention on your waist, rather opt for dresses that focuses your curves without leading to much focus on your waist.