I like being alone. I have control over my own shit. Therefore, in order to win me over, your presence has to feel better than my solitude. You're not competing with another person, you're competing with my comfort zones.
Someone from Buffalo, New York, US posted a whisper in the group Introverts Unite!, which reads "People think Im ignoring them or that I don't wanna talk to them, but in reality Im just over thinking what I should say "
I am not an introvert but I love and respect a great many people who are. I wish more people would understand what it means to be an introvert - maybe you are and you don't even realise. Introversion does not equal shyness.
If you& a hardcore introvert like me, these tips may really help you figure out ways to make the most of your happiness ? both socially and personally. Here& what you can do to get some of your energy back when other humans suck it out of you.