You change for two reasons. Either you learn enough that you want to, or you've been hurt enough that you have to. (I'm hurt enough to need to change. But I must learn enough of myself to decide what and how to change.
Bob Marley - "If she's amazing she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy . Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even thought the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.