Fool me once, etc. I cannot believe how long it took for me to truly learn this into action. I accept apologies, and I forgive. I now know, that doesn't mean I need to sit close enough to the flame to ever get burned again.
It's true. think about this. you are most afraid of things that will help you. You're most afraid of standing up to people. but it will help you. so it's important to remember to have courage and to be brave!