You don't need religion to have morals. If you can't determine right from wrong then you lack empathy, not religion. Simple as that. No need to blame religion on your lack of morals. In the end, it's a battle between you and your soul.
You may not able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.similar to what I say a lot.if you can't change the situation, the only other thing then that you can change is your attitude.