It’s not easy to fillet yourself wide open and admit what you really want. that deep desire you hold tight to your heart for fear it will be discovered. Say that one out loud to the right person and see what happens to your life.
I'm not good at being vulnerable. Perfectly fine and understanding with other peoples' vulnerability, but it's hard for me to be vulnerable. I think it's partly because I think no one will want me if they know my life isn't perfect.
"Daring greatly means the courage to be vulnerable. Brene Brown quote (Please ignore the I think since we as a society already don't know how to "get married" that "stay married" is quite a dangerous thing to propose for Most marriages)
Vulnerability is different than over sharing inappropriately, or not understanding boundaries, and generally TMI. You don& need to be vulnerable with everyone as a test. Just be authentic and don& take yourself too seriously.