and sometimes she'll get sad and she'll share it with you. not for you to cheer her up. just be quiet and feel it with her. because sometimes she needs to feel it to let it go, but she doesn't want to feel so alone.
Infj, especially the ethical part. Sometimes it would be nice to be able to be just as scummy as the person who did you wrong but it's not really an option for an Infj because our moral compasses are so strong we'd hate ourselves afterwards.