You may not able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.similar to what I say a lot.if you can't change the situation, the only other thing then that you can change is your attitude.
I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.
Be proactive with your symptoms: be picky about the company you keep. "I'm very picky with whom I give my energy to. I prefer to reserve my time, intensity, and spirit exclusively to those who reflect sincerity.