⭐Find your inner strength. Believe in yourself and stay true to who you are. Never change yourself to please a spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. Never dumb yourself down to fit anyone else's image. If they require you be less than who you really are, they don't love YOU, but rather they love some character THEY created in their imagination. Give them the facts of life about who you REALLY are and tell them to take it or leave it. You don't need control in your life. You are an original.