Fierce marriage

Marriage is Like Music

We are celebrating 31 years of marriage this month. We got married young, I was 17 and my husband was 20. We had already been together for almost 2 years. There were many that thought we wouldn’t m…

Transparency isn't about being suspicious, it's about building trust. It's not about limiting privacy, it's about building unity. We usually get a good...

Is your love flourishing?

Selena and I have had our secrets. We’ve hidden things from each other in our marriage, both purposefully and passively. We’ve masked poor financial choices, hidden sexual addiction, and “failed to mention” costly mistakes. It wasn’t until relatively recently that we discovered the power of transparency in our marriage. It’s easy to spout off sound bytes like “those with nothing to hide, hide nothing” (which is true). However, if we…