Missed opportunities

Perfectionist traits like imposter syndrome and all-or-nothing thinking often accompany ADHD. We asked ADDitude readers which aspects of perfectionism cause them the most trouble, and here is what you said.

Missing an opportunity because you lacked the courage to jump, hurts more than trying and failing.

✨ AFFIRMATION OF THE WEEK ✨ You haven’t missed any opportunity. Nothing has slipped away from you yet. Even if sometimes it feels that way. Because what is meant for you will always find you. Even if there are obstacles along the way, what is meant for you will always find its way to you. If you don’t have something in your life yet, maybe it’s not the right time. Maybe it’s still coming. Wishing you a wonderful week! ♥️

“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.” – Thomas A. Edison

Life is a journey filled with experiences, both good and bad, that shape who we are today. It's easy to get caught up in past mistakes, regrets, and missed opportunities, but it's important to remember that the past is not a life sentence. Instead, it is a lesson—a powerful teacher that helps us grow and evolve. When we dwell on the past, we chain ourselves to moments that have already gone by, preventing ourselves from moving forward. But when we view the past as a lesson, we gain wisdom…

say no to busy - let's stop the glorification of being busy

"Don't spend so much time trying to choose the perfect opportunity that you miss the right opportunity." —Michael Dell

Life has a way of surprising us, often leading us down paths we never intended to take. These unexpected detours, though seemingly inconvenient at times, are what add depth, color, and richness to our journey. They bring unforeseen challenges, new perspectives, and opportunities for growth that we might have missed if everything went according to plan. Imagine a road trip without any stops or side trips. It might be efficient, but it would also be devoid of those spontaneous moments that…

Every opportunity has a shelf life...