Who am I? - a youth group discussion starter A youth group discussion starter on identity. Begin with one or two icebreakers on the theme of ‘who am I?’ and ‘identity’ i.e. ‘Fact or fiction’, ‘If’, ‘Would you rather?’, ‘Masks’, ‘Flags.’ These can all be found in my previous posts Icebreakers for small groups and More icebreakers for small groups. Alternatively, download the free eBook ‘40 Icebreakers for Small Groups’ from the sidebar, where you will find these and many more icebreakers.