"A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it just blooms." --- Everything is you and God thing, and there is nobody else involved. So comparing or competing is just waste of time. Keep focusing on yourself, focusing of loving yourself.
Imagine waking up in a cozy cabin in the mountains and walking out into this porch with hot tea in hand, inhaling the fresh smell of an early morning rain :) Peaceful. ~ yes, i want a porch like this and a swing. I always love sitting on the porch.