Masculinity is okay, toxic masculinity is not. It is just as important to support men and end the toxic masculine stereotypes as it is to support females. Again, being masculine is okay, but *toxic* masculinity effects everyone horribly.
Rape is never the victim's fault. No one "asks" to get raped. Women (and men) should be able to wear whatever they wish without being judged. Rape is always an act of violence and is the fault of the perpetrator, not the victim.