Many people struggle to understand what is middle of the road healthy thinking or reasonable reality. Well Maslow did it for us - the characteristic of self actualizing people. // hierarchy of needs - be sure to meet all of your lower needs first!
Lots of people today need to really THINK before they speak. Too many people have forgotten how to be kind and speak with respect. The saddest part for me is that children are watching and learning how to imitate the same behavior.