Stop and take inventory of the top 5 people you spend the most time with – Do they live their daily life the way you would want to live yours? If you became like them does it make you a better person? Remember to choose carefully.
This is true. I have my best-girl-friend, but I feel alone when I talk to her, because she says she understands, but I don't feel better. The ways that good guys comfort girls helps with the kinds of things that girls can't help each other out with.