have pity on those who feel the need to bad mouth others.it just means that they are either so uninteresting or unhappy that they need to bring others down. steer clear of these! They obsess on others while their own life withers away!
Nothing can happen without God's permission and God will not allow a difficulty unless He has a divine purpose for it. If you keep your peace, you'll pass the test, and God will bring you out better than you were before.