This is how it is. You do all things to serve others and gain positive karma. Avoid gossip and hateful thoughts, for that creates negative karma. In all you do, do it for good, and do it so it will help and serve others.
Actually, I can do everything you said I couldn't, be everything you said I wouldn't. God made me and He says I can so watch me! I will break through those negative opinions and continue making my life amazing!