Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It's a relationship between equals. Only when we know our own darkness well can we be present with the darkness of others. Compassion becomes real when we recognize our shared humanity.
Three things you cannot recover in life, the word, moment, time so choose, embrace and never waste time arguing over things that will not matter in the last 5 minutes of your life. Always remember this. It's not worth it to waste your life angry.