People should not judge me for wanting to be alone; I'm fine socially, but being alone allows me to be at my most creative and smartest state! Just cause Im an introvert means Im a lazy, selfish loner?
So in other words, sit around a do nothing about it because if it doesnt happen, its not your fault. I dislike quotes like this because they convey the message that its never your fault if things dont work out?
But then I realized that I was holding on to something that didn't exist anymore, that the person I missed didn't exist anymore. People change, and we can wish they wouldn't all day long, but that never works.