"Someday everything will make perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason." Even if someday it doesn't make perfect sense, it happened for a reason.
How to best handle everything. Sometimes I just want to disappear into the wilderness but I don't like bugs or wild animals. Perfect life laying in bed eating cake all day without gaining weight. Whatever, go to sleep and give it to God.