advice for getting along with people -- something you always think you know, but don't really accept it.
People change for two main reasons their #minds have open or their hearts have been broken. #quote
When people are ready to, they change. They never do it before then, and sometimes they die before they get around to it. You can't make them change if they don't want to, just like when they do want to, you can't stop them. - Andy Warhol
This leads to another problem, of not committing on anything that they are not 100% sure that they can deliver on. The last thing they would do is break a commitment.