I had to be strong without you, because you were my strength and you left me. I was strong right after you left, but I grew weaker and weaker without you. You kept hurting me and tearing me down after you left.
Pinned says: Great advice! Generally people who try to control others, and are considered controlling, are the very people who are the most "out of control". If you need to be in control take a good hard look in the mirror and figure out why?