There are three main components to each prayer; the glorification or Allah, recitation of the Qur'an, and blessings on the prophet. Each prayer ends with the phrase “Peace be upon you”, even when alone. I am muslim and I proud of myself.
if 'keeping her' is the only reason you treat a woman right, it doesn't count imo. It's like being nice to somebody just to get in their pants. You should treat women (and men also) right because they are people