you need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving. your life is about breaking you won limits and outgrowing yourself to live your best life. you are not in competition with anyone else; plan to outdo your past, not other people.
"Your past is just a story. And once you realize this, it has no power over you. Write your own story for your future and realize your journey to acheive your goals. I started a new chapter for my story.
It's important to take the necessary steps to find out who you are. Because you hold endless depths below the surface of a few facts and pieces and past decisions. You aren't only the ripples others can see. You are made of oceans.