Part of understanding your story is to know your learning type or intelligence type. The 9 Types of Intelligence By Howard Gardner Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences Interpersonal, linguistic, spatial is all me.
"A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it just blooms." --- Everything is you and God thing, and there is nobody else involved. So comparing or competing is just waste of time. Keep focusing on yourself, focusing of loving yourself.