I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings, even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't guarantee that others will be good people. You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person.
متى استعبدتم الناس وقد ولدتهم أمهاتهم أحرارا When did you start turning people into slaves when their mothers gave birth to them as free human beings? ~Umar ibn al-Khattab speaking to Amr ibn al-Aas, ruler of Egypt, whose son had mistreated a Coptic Christian