A divorce lawyer is way more expensive than a babysitter and date night. Best investment we can make for our children is to invest in our marriage. This is especially true for those of us who have children with special needs.
Wedding Ring: This one. White gold band with a rose gold halo setting. Skinny band (but not too delicate that I would have to be careful with it). Maybe a light champagne center diamond, or else just a normal diamond.