It's important to scrunch your hair at the roots periodically as it dries, as this will give it volume and prevent the flat-hair look typical of no heat-styling. You can also flip your hair upside down a few times as it dries for added effect.
That is so important. Love is never deceitful. It isn't deceitful to your spouse. And it isn't deceitful to your children. If there is deceit in a relationship, it is not true love, rather it is self-serving and selfish for personal gain.